Dedicated organic farmer, risk engineer

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Dedicated organic farmer, consultant, hobbyist chef seeks tenderhearted woman of character who savors humor, living, being, and loving.

I’ve never been more ready for, or appreciative of, a quality woman who is ready to meet her biggest supporter, best friend and lover. I feel that I’ve never appreciated or understood women more than I do now, and I’m ready to love and give with grace. I’d like to co-create and grow a loving relationship with an amazing partner. I do have four grown children and grand-kids.

I’ve done the hard interior work to understand and heal my past. Through my faith and personal transformation, I’ve found peace, understanding and wisdom. I love my life, am grateful for so much, and count my blessings every day. I treasure my closest friendships and let other safe people see the real me warts and all. I am also a warrior. Quit is not in my vocabulary for my relationship(s), my faith, and my farming.

You:
Are comfortable in your own skin
Have “done the work” of healing your past
Are spiritually and emotionally growing
Speak your mind and don’t expect another to read your mind

Have integrity and live your life honestly
Are a forgiving person, don’t hold grudges and seek to reconcile rather than retreat
Are energized by Creation
Are financially responsible
Know you are deserving of a high quality, passionate, reciprocal relationship

Me: (the above plus)
Am a velvet covered brick
Am compassionate, kind, and non-judgmental
Know my true calling and understand my inner voice
Am self-assured yet humble
Am optimistic and capable
Know how to treat a lady
Am adventuresome and step out of my comfort zone
Am easy-going but decisive taking the lead as needed
Strive to serve and love others well
Am peaceful, open and honest
Know how to listen with an open heart

Can you picture this? Recently, after a Saturday of farm work, I walked along a private riverbank path at the back of my farm (that adjoins the Puyallup River.) I enjoyed a spectacular sunset along with quaking tree leaves, a rushing river, smoothed sand bars, and love birds playing overhead. As I walked, I thought how wonderful it would be to walk this path, with the most incredible woman. If that sounds as delightful to you as it does to me, then we should meet.

Note: I only date unmarried, emotionally available women who are serious, like minded, and interested in commitment. If you are a city woman who doesn’t like getting her hands dirty, are in a lot of debt or haven’t healed past wounds let’s save each other some time and “pass”.

If what I’ve written resonates with you I’d like to hear from you. Please include a blurb or two referencing something from my profile and why you are interested. I will do the same.

Sign

Taurus

My Body Type Is

Fit

My Height Is

6' 1 (1.85 m)

My Eyes Are

Gray

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Other

I Have One Or More Of These

I Own A Farm

Willing To Relocate

No

What kind of tractor do you prefer?

Kubota or whhen I am stuck in the field or a ditch any working tractor will do

What does your farm mostly consist of?

Crops

Why is dating a farmer better?

They understand the land and tend to be lower drama

Do you own a farm or work on someone else's?

I own it

How important is it that your partner is also a farmer?

Not at all.

What do you like most about your work?

I love the energy I feel in Creation and making things grow

How big is the farm you work on?

10.25 acres (Blueberries and pastured poultry)

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Research / Science / Engineering

My Job Title Is

Senior Risk Engineering Consultant

I Make This Much In A Year

$100,000USD To $150,000USD

I Live

Alone, With Roomate(s)

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Average Joe

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Reading, Learning, Dancing, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert

An Ideal First Date Would Be

For coffee or somthing similar. Any public place where we can carry on a conversation works...then lets take it a step at a time.

I've Always Wanted To Try

A wine, food, and farm tour of Burgundy region in France

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Not Sure

My Goal In Life Is

To live a serene, simple, sustainable life where I can raise and market healthy nutrient dense food to help feed people within a 100 mile radius of Pierce County WA and to share my life with an amazing woman.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Romance, Drama, Family

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Soul, Reggae, Folk

When I Read, I Always Read

Auto-biography, Classic, Fiction, History, Home & Garden, Humor, Nature, Philosophy, Poetry

My Idea Of Fun Is

A walk along the river just before sunset with a fascinating woman

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Spontaneity, Boldness, Empathy, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

1. High self esteem

2. Forgiving-reconciling-not retreating / withdrawing into turtle shell

3. Collaborative -policy of joint/mutual agreement

4. Financially responsible

5. Shared spiritual beliefs/compatible religious beliefs

6. Emotional intimacy

7. Strong self disclosure

8. Monogamy/fidelity

9. Handles conflict constructively

10. Values self awareness: has done the inner work of understanding and healing her past

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Committed