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Dchenlikebitchen

29 Palms, California | Woman Seeking A Man

Basic Information

First name
Donnia
I Would Describe Myself As
I'm happy and easy going. Open minded, not naive. Get along great with people. Outgoing, outspoken ( tactfully ), a little shocking sometimes and very responsive. Lol I'm full grown so I'm not looking for a daddy or anyone to make my decisions for me. I want a man that will be supportive of my madness and my dependability. Someone that can be secure despite my consistent inconsistency! Yes, dependable and inconsistent are a reach but I do it well. Lol There is no drama in my life... at all... and I like it this way. No ex issues.... and I like it this way. So if you have a ex that is consistently In your life/ business then I wish you luck but I want no part in the madness and confusion. My ex husband and I are cool but we only occasionally communicate and even then it's good and friendly. No tensions no confusions. I don't harbor bad feelings towards others. Not for too long, anyhow....haha. I'd like to find a man that is not threatened by my lack of 'need' for a man. Any man can fill that spot for a minute for someone. I think people waste a lot of time on 2 wk/2 mo/ 2 yr dating. The majority of daters know that the person across the table is or isn't a long term possibility in the first few min of a date ( before they it up even, yet will still it up), some may take a few dates even.... but it does not take a few months before the first time that the thought ' this isn't gonna work out ' or ' I could not live the rest of my life like this' occurs. I'm just saying... too many career girlfriends and boyfriends/career baby mama and baby daddy out there these days. If there is a connection then there is, but if there isn't don't waste time being nice, shallow or faking a feeling. For any reason. Life is too short. And so much fun with someone secure and sure. Alone is fun too, for a while. It's freeing and enlightening. Educating. I've learned a lot about my relationship failures. My contributions to those failures and my lack of contributions to makingng success possible. Now I'm ready to test what I've learned.... any brave theory testers out there?
Wow lol
That was a lot of babble!
I love my 2 grown sons and im very proud of how well they are doing in life. I love my horses, they a dream finally come true for me. And i love my big, spoiled ass indoor dogs ( 3 of them equalling nearly 300lbs together and I'm hoping to find a man that can appreciate that cause he loves his too ( kids, horses, dogs)! In my head my guy also drives a pickup truck (dodge/ chevy/ gmc ), wears a pair of jeans like he could go to a rodeo or restaurant and look proper dressed at both. Strong character and body. Can laugh at himself as much as he's gonna laugh at me ( I'm a little dumb clumsy sometimes amongst other goofy aspects of my personality.). I laugh at me. He is humble and confident. Accomplished and content in his profession. Settled. Spontaneous. He'll, in my head you, whoever you are, are a perfect fit... with a little give and take on the perfection part...hahaha... reality will prob have me fall in love with a guy with a cat or chihuahua, a Honda and lives in a guest house behind his parents cause he hasn't finished college yet and is about to celebrate his 54th bday at Chuck e cheese ..... ! Lol
Sign
Libra

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
5' 4 (1.63 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Hair
Body Art
Belly Button Ring, Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is
Dark Blonde
I Have One Or More Of These
Cat, Dog, Bird, Fish, Horse
Willing To Relocate
Yes

The Farmer In Me

How big is the farm you work on?
I do not work on a farm. I work for the USMC

Status

My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Hospitality / Travel
I Live
With Pet(s)
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
Yes - But Non Tobacco
I Drink
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A
Brain
My Social Behavior Is
Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Family, Photography, Learning, Music, Dancing, Cooking, Gardening, Cars, Fishing / Hunting, Camping, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Tv
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Unique
I've Always Wanted To Try
Tomorrow....
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Cool, Goofy

Views

My Religion Is
Christian
I Attend Services
On Holidays
My Political Views Are
I Don't Like Politics
My Goal In Life Is
Happiness.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Raunchy

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch
Cartoons, Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Comedy, Family, Animation
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rap, Rock, Metal, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Punk
When I Read, I Always Read
I Don't Like Reading
My Idea Of Fun Is
Being outside on a nice day with my horses or my quads

Looking for

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Other